A Picture Is Worth 1,000 Words - Days Like These Are Worth More Than Gold

Yesterday, we were honored to participate in the Autism Awareness Walk organized by the Autism Society of the Inland Empire. The event took place about an hour from our home at the Southern California Railway Museum.

As anticipated, Lulu was a hit the moment we stepped out of the parking lot, not only with children, but also with adult participants and family members. As a professional therapy horse, Lulu flawlessly navigated the crowds, blasting loudspeakers, bubble machines, jumping castles, inflatable tube men, honking trains, and even Star Wars costumes.

We had attended several large-scale events prior to this one. What truly stood out here, however, was how politely every single child asked if they could pet the horse, and how gently participants approached and interacted with her.

Unlike therapy dogs, who live in homes and are accustomed to being around humans 24/7, horses, even those trained for therapy, have shorter attention spans, especially in high-sensory environments. We were about halfway through Lulu’s “timer” when an adult participant approached and asked if he could “hug the horse.” As Lulu’s vest says, “I love to work for hugs and kisses,” I responded, “Of course!” 

He slowly knelt down and gently wrapped his arms around her.

For a moment, it seemed as though time stood still. The speakers faded and the crowds disappeared. The moment was heartfelt, real, and beautiful, a true expression of the much-talked-about human–horse connection.

We never got the man’s name, as he quietly disappeared back into the crowd, but Alessandro, my wonderful other half and event volunteer,  was able to capture the moment on his cell-phone camera. It was a moment worth more than gold and one that clearly captured the essence of our “why.” 

Nobody is braver than children and adults living with autism. While awareness is growing and support is becoming more available, many still face bullying, harassment, and misunderstanding. This can lead to anxiety, frustration, and, above all, hurt. And yet, they don't give up, and find the courage to try again every single day.

There is so much we can learn from our autistic sisters and brothers. As Autism Acceptance Month comes to a close, we feel deeply grateful to support this community and to have had the opportunity to share a little bit of miniature horse love, joy, and magic during this event. Moments like these are truly worth more than gold.